Sembang dengan member pasal membangun ekonomi sendiri.Kendian ekonomi bersama.Bila part ekonomi bersama we come to an issue : BERHENTI KERJA.
There's a lotttt of opinion,tazkirah and we finally conclude the issue with this key point.
- If your husband ask you to quit your job you have to do that.
- As a wife,before get married must know she must do what her husband ask because of Allah.Buat untuk redha Allah.Taat pada manusia dan taat pada Allah kena faham,kalau tak taat jadi sia-sia.
- The husband MUST tarbiah not ugut,perli or paksa her wife coz a wife who lack of tarbiah will definitely against you
- The husband himself must practise what he preach because the wife would use your weakness as a weapon to go against you(sounds smooth huh?)
- The husband as leader MUST be super cerdik to plan on what his wife can do(if his wife insist to work because of money-but this won't happen if his wife knows that money is a paper).Maybe its an online shop,home tutoring/tution(if his wife really love teaching and can't let go her passion in giving education meanwhile education is a way to build up ummah) or maybe making and selling frozen food(providing a halal food for ummah but yet your wife don't have to meet people too often right?
- Number 5 point must be done to make sure your parent and in law who different fikrah won't hate you for 'ruining' their daughters life(please do because its tiring to explain them while they insist to see a profit)
- Both must discuss this matter in a critical thinking way so that they can come up with a solution,a profitable plan for this life and afterlife not just wasting time "bertekak" and please during discussion do mention the life of Saidina Ali and Fatimah to soften the heart of your companion like my friend did.
- The friend I talk to is actually Anep Hanif Firdaus (Which is my schoolmate at SMK Sg Kruit,Sungkai Perak).Well he still single and searching for soulmate.hehehe
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